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Maria grew up amidst strict rules, suppressed her emotions heavily and did not learn to listen to them. How could she have learned, anyway, if her parents always knew how she felt and did not allow her to… Read More "Maria the “good child”…"
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As a society, we do not talk much about emotions. Conversations tend to focus more on what we do or what we think. In fact, most people find it easier to start sentences with “I think…” instead of… Read More "8 myths about emotions that make life difficult for “smart” people"
Shame! What will people say? I hear mums and dads saying to their kids… I hear mums and dads saying to themselves… What will people say if I get a divorce? What will people say if… Read More "“What will people say?”"